How to Lose Friends and Influence People
As long as I can remember I have without a second thought prioritised other peoples wants and needs before my own. I am the typical ‘yes’ person… the perfect example of a people pleaser and as life has gone on this ‘default setting’ of mine felt like it would never be switched off.
While I’m sure, it is admirable to think of others, it increasingly becomes a rather toxic trait, leading to a life lived for them and a vicious circle of seeking validation that you never quite get… cue trying harder for others. Alas deeper into the vortex we fall.
I assure you the purpose of this musing is not to be a buzz kill but actually leave you feeling like you can chase those crazy dreams and do the things that set your soul on fire. You can prioritise yourself and more importantly should!
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